"No, never physically," she hurries to reassure him. "But we were really young when our parents made their decision that we should be married off, and once we got to be old enough to really live with that decision, it was...pretty bad," she says softly, her chopping slowing down. "I wanted to work and experience life in the city, he thought I should just be at home, a good housewife. I wasn't demure enough, didn't dress elegantly enough, didn't take the right tone when I addressed him, poured tea incorrectly...basically, was just never good enough for anything." She pauses then, frowning a little at the memory, but not because it's been dredged up, but more because she couldn't believe she actually stayed and took it for so long.